Monday, September 29, 2014

A Spirit of Power, Love and a Sound Mind

My favorite verse, II Timothy 1:7, says that “God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, of love and of a sound mind.”

Fear comes from the enemy. It says 365 times in the Bible not to fear…one for every day of the year! And, because God did not give us this spirit, it comes from our enemy, Satan, who uses fear to try to stop us from doing many things, including living to the fullest of our potential. If we fear rejection, for example, then we may shrink back from praying with strangers, inviting them to church, telling them about the Lord or even what He has done in our lives. Or, if we fear failure (as I do), then we may be too scared to use our God-given gifts in fear of adding one more failure to our long list of previous failures. (Guilty!) Why bother anymore, we may ask. These are only a few examples of hundreds of things that fear drives us to do…or not do.

However, because we are “from God and have overcome…the one who is in me is GREATER than the one who is in the world” (I John 4:4). Therefore, in reality, the spirit of power, of love and of a sound mind is much greater than the spirit of fear, as they come from God whereas fear comes from the enemy (to try to destroy us).

One of the many things that the spirit of power enables us to do is face each day with strength. We have power to stand on, because God backs us up with this power. We have the power to overcome illness, loss and other devastations that life can throw our way. Have you ever wondered how someone can suffer with things like cancer, death of loved ones, job loss and financial struggle and still have joy in their heart and strength that keeps them going? It is only though the power that God gives that person to overcome in the midst of great difficulty. I have had members of my own family ask me how I can still be smiling and happy (full of joy) when I have been through so much in my life, far more than the average person. All I can do is point toward heaven and say “it’s only because God gives me the strength, peace and joy to do so.” I can tell you for certain it is NOT ONLY because I am a really strong person, but because in my weakness, God’s strength is more present and obvious in my life. When we handle life’s difficulties well, others take notice and it speaks volumes about our faith in God and His strength in our lives.

The spirit of love motivates us to love others, even when they are not lovely. We are able to love the coworker who is rude, angry or seems to enjoy ignoring or mistreating you. It may be really hard to do, especially in our own strength, but when we pray for God to help us to see others as He sees them and ask Him to help us love that person, He will do it! This spirit of love will supersede what we may feel like doing, like scratching a rude, snappy co-worker’s eyes out, for example! How many times I have had to hold my tongue from responding not out of love, but out of the flesh.  But, the results are always worth it! Case in point…I had one co-worker with whom I worked with for two years. Almost every day, she came in with a much less than desirable attitude and either completely ignored me or would say something snide to me. She was one of those who enjoyed seeing someone get in trouble and would laugh about it behind your back. Anyway, she was one of those that was much easier to avoid than talk to. I would rather have had a root canal than have to ask her something work-related because of the attitude I always got.

However, after my book came out, I posted a picture of it in the break room in case someone wanted a copy. She overheard me talking about it being a collection of my personal testimonies and said, “I have a testimonial.” I just about fell out of my chair because I could not believe she would have something like that to say. It would have been easy to overlook what she said and not respond. However, I said “Why don’t you tell me about it? I would love to hear what your testimony is!” She proceeded to tell me about a time where she was literally at death’s door and God intervened and did a miracle and she survived, to which I responded, “Wow! That’s great! I’ll bet you thank God every day for doing that for you! That is awesome! Thanks for sharing that with me!” From that point on, she was a TOTALLY different person. She actually started talking to me after that and her attitude did a 180 degree turn, at least towards me personally. I think she just needed to know someone cared and showing just a little bit of love towards her totally changed her attitude from that day on, praise God!

The spirit of a sound mind allows us to remain calm when everything around us seems to be falling apart and going crazy. The Lord helps us to remain focused, disciplined and even-keeled during these times. We do not have to go off the deep end when our world comes crashing down, because God gives us a spirit of a sound mind. Some versions of the Bible say “spirit of self-discipline.” This spirit allows us to remain under control when things in life are out of control, or even to resist that extra piece of cake you want, but do not need. It also helps us to become more disciplined in spending time with the Lord daily when so many things fight for our time and attention, for example. It takes self-discipline to grow any relationship, and that includes our relationship with the Lord. So many things can get us off track (even good things can), but He can help keep us, or get us back on, track and keep us there.

So remember…do not fear, because God gives us so much more! J

 

1 comment:

  1. I love the fact that "Do not fear" has been mentioned 365 times in the Bible. It really is a daily reminder for us. God knows how vulnerable humans can be that we often forget these wonderful words.

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